The Non Monogamy Card Game and Journal

150 professionally developed and tested conversation prompts and a customized advanced game play journal to record agreements. For ages 18+. Whether you are exploring non monogamy for the first time or are part of a practicing polycule, these 150 questions are designed to embolden you toward the conversations you need and want to have about non monogamy.

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    $49.99 USD
    $49.99 USD

The Conversations You Need and Want to Be Having about Non Monogamy

Our 150 professionally curated and tested conversation prompts invite exploration and deep connection with your partner(s) as you navigate crucial conversations with creativity and integrity.

This game is your tool for building a strong foundation of trust and safety in non-monogamous relationships.

Articulate your beliefs and desires, paving the way for authentic agreements and fostering understanding and genuine connections with partners and friends.

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FAQ

I don’t believe in relationship rules or agreements, is this game for me?

Yes! Even if your goal is not to create agreements, this game will help you have clear, open lines of communication with your partners. This supports relationship safety and integrity regardless of how you feel about having specific relationship agreements. We have developed this game with agency, individuality and creativity in mind.

My partner and I have been monogamous and are contemplating opening our relationship but unsure if we want to take that step. Is this game appropriate for us?

The Non monogamy Card Game is a great place for the two of you to start. We designed and tested these questions with folks from all walks of life and relationship experience, including currently monogamous couples. Our Foundations Deck allows each of you to think through what matters most to you personally so that you can have productive conversations about actually practicing non monogamy. There is no expectation of outcome in this game. Whether your goal is just to explore being"monogam-ish" or more, the Foundations Deck will help you explore what feels both safe and exciting to you. We cover all the bases!

We have been practicing polyamory in our polycule for years, will this game offer us anything new?

 Yes! Clarify where you stand in our Foundations Deck then use our Deep Dive Deck to clarify the agreements needed for longer term practicing polycules. Many long-time polyamorous folks have given us feedback that the game brought up important conversations they had never before had with some of their partners. 

Our Story

The Non Monogamy Card Game was designed by two friends who are professional psychotherapists in Northern California. This game was born from the request of our wonderful clients and our personal communities. We kept hearing versions of, “We read all the books but we don’t know quite what conversations we need to be having and agreements we need to be making.”

When we began to look for resources, we couldn't find exactly what we were looking for. 

So, we created this non monogamy relationship tool in a card game form.
We spent the last year testing, refining and editing these 150 questions. From foundational questions to deeper diving, our intention is for The Non Monogamy Card Game to be a fun and approachable way to explore values, desires, and needs in both the conversation and practice of non monogamy, in whatever form you decide to practice.

In creating this game, we have drawn upon both our wealth of professional experience in our work with non-monogamous folks and our personal experiences with various forms of non-monogamy. 

We hope you enjoy exploring this game with your partners as much as we have enjoyed creating it for you!


“This game was born from the needs of our wonderful clients and our personal communities”.